GET RID OF AN INFERIORITY COMPLEX

GET RID OF AN INFERIORITY COMPLEX

It's a big word, and a smutty one at that, but mostly everyone has a complex about something. Well, there are ways out of this schmucky feeling.........

Discover the Problem

First of all, you've to admit it to yourself. You may not be clever enough, or popular enough, or well-dressed enough, or monied enough, or good-looking enough..............and enough has no limits, you know. But once you know who the enemy is, you can go for them.

Love thyself!

Then, ask yourself, how important it is really. Is it important to the people who matter to you and to whom you matter or is it just one of those things the rest of the world makes you feel inferior about? Never devalue the people who like you by thinking , "Oh, she's a friend, so she doesn't mind it." Show some respect for the people who love you.By lacking in Self-esteem, you are dissing the people who love you.By thinking yourself as lesser person, you're making out that your friends have a bad taste and your parents are worthless. What utter rot... The peoplewho love you have good sense...respect it!

Leave no stone unturned

Then if it is important enough, ask yourself if you can do anything about it? Bad Grammar? Take some tuition in conversation. Bad Dancer? Free lessons from a friend or a classmate. Bad skin? Treatment. No conversation? Read newspaper and watch TV to be in the know. The solution is not always difficult if you know what the problem is. Big nose? Uh.......! Just keep breathing with the dratted thing unless you are Aishwarya Rai or your uncle is a cosmetic surgeon. WHO CARES?

Find out hidden talents

Have some pride. All this may sound like a psychobabble to you, but really, having pride is not only about doing well in exams or getting that male or female chick snaredor being able to get instant popness by being able to play Guitar. You could have other talents (and believe me, not everyone has) of being diplomatic, calming people down, making people laugh. Even if you make people cry- think of how many glycerine bottles you could replace in the movies.

No useless comparison

Stop comparing yourself with others. There's no point. It's a bad habit you inherit unknowingly from parents- FIGHT HEREDITY! You can't compare two people in this world. It's like comparing apples with New York. Useless!

Learn to enjoy life

Life is a gift. Every breath is a gift. value it. Appreciate what you have, instead of cribbing about what you didn't get or don't have. You have lots of time to get what you long for- but if you are going to mope around, you ain't gonna be able to get it for sure.

Heal the world

Be nice. Why the hell? Well...most of all because it has a huge 'feeling good' factor for you. It doesn't take piles of effort, don't try to save the world, just be less critical and pessimistic about everything and everyone, appreciate things other people are doing. That boosts up your own image like a pump. You will feel cooler about yourself.